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What are Pornography and Sex Addictions?

 

Current research indicates that pornography and other non-violent sexual addictions are characterized by brain chemistry, behaviors, and treatment needs similar to any other addiction. Pornography addiction is a subset of sex addiction with distinctive features.

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What is Sex Addiction?

 

  • It requires a partner—willing or unwilling.
  • It is using another individual or group of individuals to perform some sexual activity.
  • It may involve pornography to “get in the mood.”
  • It has the goal of having an orgasm or ejaculation.
  • It is interacting with others to create a feeling of sexual excitement.
  • It involves specific rituals, which vary with the individual.
  • It involves shame, guilt, and secrecy and is heightened by the feeling of the danger of exposure.
  • It is not about sex. It is not about love.
  • It is about lust. It is about control. It is about self-gratification.
  • It may involve a spouse. Marriage does NOT prevent sex addiction.
  • It is divided into three stages:
    • Stage 1: Masturbation, pornography, prostitution, consensual relations
    • Stage 2: Exhibitionism, voyeurism, BDSM (a variety of erotic practices involving dominance and submission)
    • Stage 3: Non-consensual relations such as rape, incest, molestation
  • It will often escalate through the stages.
  • It is usually about the fantasy of what will happen rather than the experience of what happens.

What is Porn Addiction?

 

  • It is solitary.
  • It is looking at pictures, reading stories, or watching movies with nakedness, a specific body part, a specific article of clothing, or a specific sexual activity as the focus.
  • It may have the goal of having an orgasm or ejaculation.
  • It is done in isolation, even when in a crowd, to create a feeling of sexual excitement.
  • It involves specific rituals, which vary with the individual.
  • It involves shame, guilt, and secrecy.
  • It is not about sex. It is not about love.
  • It is about lust. It is about control. It is about self-gratification.
  • Porn creates the vicarious sense of being able to control situations and relationships without having to deal with such messy reality as others’ feelings or desires.
  • It is a subset of sex addiction, but it will rarely escalate into other stages of sex addiction.

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